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Old 10-31-2010, 02:40 PM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Originally Posted by livsen View Post
Do you find it worth it though - jeopardising (didnīt spell that right) a relationship in order to follow your own needs? Thatīs probably the moral question for me.
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Interesting way to phrase it. I think you will find some of us never thought we were jeopardizing anything to go down this path. It was a lot of work, but we do tend to try and have a REALLY strong foundation before doing this.

And ideally, as selfish as this may appear, it can work out being better for everyone involved. But you need to have an end goal that works and a progression that suits both of you. Jumping into this without concern for your partner(s) is when it becomes exceptionally difficult and painful.

Ari
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