No, I`m not literally a retard - at least I pretend not to be.ha ha
You guys seem so compassionate and thoughtful - thatīs so great
I appreciate yor advice SO much and I try to do this in a very thoughtful and loving way, so that I wonīt hurt my boyfriends feelings.
Do you find it worth it though - jeopardising (didnīt spell that right) a relationship in order to follow your own needs? Thatīs probably the moral question for me.