NeonKaos just bumped this up so others could find it. Hope it helps http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4082
Doubt is one of those nasty words!
I have all sorts of doubts, most having to do with deep seated stuff within my own self. I end up blogging either here or LJ, just letting the words flow by letting go of the conscience thought process. I'm amazed some times by what has really been bothering me, it certainly WASN'T what I thought it was.
How do I handle it? As I said, I blog it. I also talk to Breathes once I've figured out enough of it to be able to verbalize things. He sees things in a totally different way than I do so quite often sees an answer I don't.