It occurs to me that perhaps you should just trust what he says. If he says he is fine then take him on his word for that. You could even tell him you are going to trust that is true. You could say that you are availabe if he ever has anything to talk about to you and then carry on. Maybe he just likes to sit on the outside of a group and observe. Deriving his comfort and feeling like he belongs because he is there. Something I do also.
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Last edited by redpepper; 10-30-2010 at 01:04 AM.