Originally Posted by marymary
maybe i am just not mature/emotionally intelligent/rational/developed/self-aware/self-confident/sane enough for a poly relationship, or indeed for any kind of relationship.
how does one know?
First thing - there is no failure....only lessons. Take them as they come, regardless of how tough
second thing - everyone is "ready" for a relationship. Just understand what you want and keep working for it. don't judge what YOU want in relationships, just know what you want is what will make you happy and work towards it. Don't compromise that
Third - no one knows anything. We can only relate by our own experiences. Hopefully by everyones experiences we can all learn something and create our own knowledge....