I hear you there.
That's one of the reasons I'm not looking for anyone, because until things are SOLIDLY stable in my personal life-for a couple of YEARS, I don't want to drag other lovers into the mix-on any front.
I figure by this point you are aware of the fact that Maca is staying elsewhere for now.
We're not fighting-at least I don't think we are.
He's trying to find himself. I'm trying to just sit still.
I hope all is well with you.