Originally Posted by Tonberry
I think we have that vision of "The Cheater" who is an evil person who hurts someone willingly, or two (his wife and the mistress), so of course you don't recognise yourself in that.
Considering the circumstances, I think you have a fair chance at it. You all seem willing to try hard and work together, so that's a very good thing.
Thanks TB, I do see where you are coming from. I do accept the fact that I cheated or was "The Cheater" - and yes it hurts and I wish I would/could have been open about all from the beginning and enjoy all moments truly with my wife and D. As it stands now, my wife is actually not so hard wired as she and I thought and D is surely more compassionate when expected. As I said earlier, I do feel truly blessed having two "angels" in my life.
Thank you TB