Generally Friday night is my night to just be my own primary with no partners, no kids, no noise
Saturdays is son #2's bowling league in the morning, running around in the afternoon then just hang at home with who ever's here at night
Sunday I try to get a few hours in with Possibility & who ever wants to hang with us in the late morning & early afternoon.
Sunday afternoon/evening is Breathes & my ONE guarnateed evening together with no friends or other family unless we feel we want the company. Unfortunately with hockey season upon us I am supposed to be spending a portion of Sunday night at his hockey games *sigh*. I can't stand hockey but we do what we gotta do for the kids, right?
There are as many ways to do polyamory as there are people practicing it!