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Old 10-23-2010, 09:29 PM
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Right now I am just giving everyone the weekend to relax and sort out feelings.
Very wise move. Taking a little time to just breathe and process all this new information may be just what your husband needs to see that that you are still you, that nothing is fundamentally changed between the two of you, and that opening himself up to the new possibilities you are presenting could be a good thing for each of you. I would suggest it might also be wise for you make yourself ready and available to answer questions and discuss possibilities, but let him set the pace and direction. He may have lots of questions, or he may just want to mull it all over.

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I figure if #2 can't talk openly to me about how he is feeling and why he reacted the way he did then he just isn't the right person for us.
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