Oh i don't know if I would stop being paranoid... for me that is a gut response that is telling me something. I don't feel paranoid in my "V" (perhaps this is naive?) at least of late anyway, because I know that everyone is being radically honest and communicating really hard stuff the moment it comes up. Every time I have been paranoid it has been for a good reason and I have had to face up to something really difficult. Not just in my "V" in life also. No, you could drop the stupid, but keep the paranoid and try and get to the bottom of why. Once there, do something about it... cause it doesn't get better with time, just worse and more messy. At least that has been what I have experienced.
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