Originally Posted by redpepper
If I had a dime for every time I have heard this similar sentiment on this forum I would be a rich woman today...
the thing is that people allow this to happen. It is possible to create a balance and create new boundaries that are more balanced... you both brought kids into the world and are both responsible for them... if there is a balance then you can go out and spend some time with your friends... you SHOULD be spending time with your friends. Its healthy to I think.
Couldn't agree more. This is currently my focus for fixing me.
Just need some friends to spend time with first
Should be managable. I am pretty awesome, when I remember not to suck
The more you judge, the less you love
The only common thread in all my failed relationships, is ME.
Last edited by MyotherB; 10-23-2010 at 07:22 AM.