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Old 10-23-2010, 06:13 AM
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Originally Posted by MyotherB View Post
Doesn't help that to keep her happy over the last 7 years, I basically torpedoed my social life, so all I have to do while she is out is watch the kids.
If I had a dime for every time I have heard this similar sentiment on this forum I would be a rich woman today...

the thing is that people allow this to happen. It is possible to create a balance and create new boundaries that are more balanced... you both brought kids into the world and are both responsible for them... if there is a balance then you can go out and spend some time with your friends... you SHOULD be spending time with your friends. Its healthy to I think.
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