Yay for you MyotherB.
I am so pleased things are going well. It is so important for us monos to post the positives as well as the struggles. We are essentially a micro niche within a micro niche and things can get very lonely. Polys can post about their wonderful times but what are our wonderful times? Sometimes it's hard to find them; sometimes all they seem to be is the "not being crap times". So we must start for ourselves finding and sharing the times with our partners that are great. I was uplifted by your posts and I'm grateful, thankyou.
@Vodkafan, you are such a sweet man and you remind me that mono men too work hard to keep their poly/mono relationships in good health.