wow, that is really awful and unfair... how ignorant they are about diversity.
I can't say that I know much about your case or have any advice, but I offer you my support and wish you well...
you might try doing a tag search or sticky search to see if anyone has written on this type of thing before. I seem to remember posts in the past that talked of this type of persecution... good luck.
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