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Old 10-20-2010, 08:06 PM
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I would be a bit put off by the whole not meeting thing myself. It doesn't mean necessarily that there is anything wrong going on between the two of them but I think it is healthy to at least have a short face to face. Doesn't mean you two need to be best friends. And as previously stated, if there's some issue standing in the way, it might be good to work through it. Some people like not meeting, generally known as DADT (don't ask, don't tell) or some variation of it. Not something I want to do. Maybe you and her could just discuss further why she really doesn't want to. Or ask her if she simply doesn't want the three of you socializing but would be ok with a quick introduction. I think it's worth some consideration, though.
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