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Old 10-20-2010, 04:42 PM
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I agree with MNIM.

People sometimes get sucked into the 1 for 1 mentality. Each relationship has a different style. As long as the individuality of the relationship is being fed, comparing is a bad game to play.

Great topic, and kudos to you for seeing the differences.


One thing I have found myself doing in any of my poly-style relationships (as a secondary),..is to stop my bf/gf from saying things to me, I know they normally say to their primary. (when I get a feeling, their primary may see it as special.) ...it just seems natural.

I can say, I dont think there is any poor intent. Usually just a slip of the tongue, based on routine habits we all make.
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