Had a regional orphan Burn (for those Burners not going to Burning Man) this past weekend. My son failed to pack the tent poles so I was looking at having no tent (somebody else picked them up for me as they headed out to the burn), then the cot died under me Friday night. Was still a great burn. The effigy was of Domo and he burned spectacularly.
Ya might want to check out your local Burner scenes. Lots of poly folk involved. Burner culture is highly inclusive, so you'll find straight folk, bi folk, gay folk, trans folk, ravers, rockers, kinky folk, vanilla folk, old folk, young folk..though we're a bit short on Christian and Muslim fundamentalists (and I just don't understand why! ;-D).