Hi Angel, welcome
I'm sure there are people on here much more qualified to answer this than me. I did have a discussion however with a person in a similar situation to try and get a better understanding of how it all works. She said that it is perfectly acceptable to negotiate your basic boundaries outside of the master/slave dynamic. I'd say this is a basic boundary and you feel as you feel and have every right to communicate it and try to get him to co-operate.
Last edited by sage; 10-19-2010 at 07:08 AM.