Originally Posted by Superjast
Your spouse may be a excellent spouse in every other way. Your spouse may of moved mountains for you at various points in life. That said, your spouse is fibbing to themself, when he/she says, that they lied to you,..in order to protect you.
They are not lying to protect you, they are lying to protect themselves from the fall out of your pain and anger.
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