Luckily Redpepper has PN and Derby who are much more sex positve than me and therefore I don't feel pressured to attend such events. I do however have to accept the consequences of my choices. The only thing negative I can foresee would be creating a distance betwen me and Redpepper if I start cocooning from alot of stuff because she has other partners to participate with. Distance = lack of connection. Lack of connection for a mono is a bad thing. It creates the possibility of a new connection. Gotta keep an eye on that!
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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