Thanks LR, I've never thought of myself "kicking ass" before
Do you think it's just about trusting ourselves though? I agree that was an important element. It took me a long time to actually trust that my feelings were valid when I had a husband and friends telling me that they weren't. But it was also really important to believe in my ability to handle whatever happened as a result of my decisions. I was also continually told that I wouldn't be able to.