not specifically looking for a discussion just yet - as I said the court stuff is too important to be distracted from (though I am obviously so focused being in here again
Just saying "g'day, this is me"
though really its "this is my situation and only a very broad overview"
I will definitely post in the 'new to poly' section in a few weeks time. I am hoping to talk to my partner and get him sign up and have a chat as well, he has already had a look around...