Wow mumbles! I can't make this smile big enough!
You'd be amazed at how many people don't figure out what you did and continue to do what they do for fun without consciousness and empathy; communicating before hand. The disconnect can get bigger and then they wonder why. Not that casual sex is not worth something just for reasons of fun, not to feel more self worth. Its hard to know at the time, which is why its so important to keep in tune with ourselves and be conscious of what we do.
Good for you and your breakthrough! Pass on what you've learned my friend. So that others can learn from you now.