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Old 10-16-2010, 02:30 PM
GroundedSpirit GroundedSpirit is offline
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Hey SN,

I think Ari has shared some valuable insight already - pointing to insecurities.

Different people seem to put different parts of a relationship on a higher rung. Problems don't occur until someone starts sawing at the top rung. I guess they think that's all they have left to cling to before falling.
The security thing Ari mentions.

And of course there's a whole host of things that contribute to people's insecurities. We all have them. But - at least for me - I find it fun to have one of them exposed. That way I can work at reinforcing it. I don't want any 'top rungs'. I'd rather weave my big net on the way up so regardless of which rung breaks, I'll land somewhat safely and start climbing again.

GS
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