View Single Post
Old 10-16-2010, 05:49 AM
ray's Avatar
ray ray is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: USA
Posts: 819

Ah, I see. Well, at least you know she's thought about it. You can always test the waters with more subtle statements about non-monogamy and try to gauge her reactions to see what she thinks. I'm not good at coming up with those but someone on here must be. My SO did that a lot. It did end up confusing me for awhile though because I thought he just wanted a threesome. I had told him he needed to stop trying to convince me (I don't do casual, NSA sex) and then that night the light went on and I realized what he might have been trying to say. And then I asked him and we finally all understood what was going on. So, in the end you'll probably have to come out and say it but what's wrong with testing the waters?
Reply With Quote