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Old 10-16-2010, 05:22 AM
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Are you looking for a secondary to be there mostly just for sex or are you looking for relationship relationship with said secondary? Because those are two different discussions. It's hard to say how that discussion will go. Just let it be free to flow however. Whatever the reaction, to let that be okay and go from there rather than trying to push to get what you want. Or if he's simply not willing to budge, that's another conversation centered around will you get what you need for the relationship to be healthy. Ultimately, as long as you communicate with him responsibly and respectfully, that's the important thing. There's no formula beyond that.
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