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Old 10-16-2010, 04:20 AM
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A, my SO's wife, seems to have no issue with O and I having a deep emotional connection but has yet to feel comfortable with us having sex. She and I have not discussed it in depth so I can't explain her specific view point. It's something I hope we get to talking about. I know that they've talked about it together which at this junction is the most important thing, IMO. Perhaps it's a societal thing because really emotional connect seem to be deeper and longer lasting in the end. I mean, I wouldn't want a life partner (mono and/or primary) with whom all I had was great sex and no emotional connection. Yet many of us focus on the sex. Hmmm. This is not a topic that I know a lot about. But it certainly is an interesting one.
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