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Old 10-15-2010, 10:44 PM
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Mostly-I write.
I OFTEN will write to GG. He tends to have the perfect words to alleviate my fears.
Insecurity is all about fear-and usually NOT what you are claiming to be insecure about.

If I'm feeling insecure about Maca going out on a date.
I'm not afraid of him dating.
I'm afraid of losing him.
It's that simple.

If I'm feeling insecure about GG hanging out with his friends/family who hate me.
I'm not afraid of GG socializing.
I'm afraid of losing him.

It's that simple.

When I express insecurities to GG-he always knows the right words to remind me that NO I'm not going to lose Maca. No I'm not going to lose GG. No I'm not going to lose my kids love etc etc.

He picks up on my personal truths and personal strengths and reminds me of them which refocuses my mind on the positive.

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