Originally Posted by Tonberry
In your case, they've both asked you, it seems, so I'm not sure what you could do. Picking neither could be the more "fair" route, but then you have nobody left...
On the other hand I guess I wouldn't trust people very much if they were putting me in this situation to begin with. And rather than resent them forever, no matter which I chose, I might prefer to part ways completely.
I guess I'm not help at all. It sounds like a very hard situation.
Actually-the converse is true. If you choose neither of them-you suddenly have millions of other options.
There is MUCH to be said for not choosing people who don't love you for who you are, as you are................
There's probably 1000s of posts on here of the misery that follows if you try to pretend to be that which you aren't just to keep someone.
It pretty much always fails. Not a matter of if, just a matter of when....