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Old 08-16-2009, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted by ImaginaryIllusion View Post
Ask yourself the hard questions, and be very honest with yourself about the answers. Try to detach yourself from the emotions long enough to make a calm rational decision,...this is the step most people seem to miss, and I'm convinced it's what causes a lot of the tears and heartache. It sounds cold, but you need to make your calculations with a level head to decide where you want to be in a year or two, or five, and how you want to get there.
Awesome advice! This is good advice for any situation let alone this one. I can think of many poly situations where this would be useful.

Thanks imaginary!
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