Originally Posted by Ren
Is it OK to cuddle with her on the couch? In front of B? In front of the kids? Where does intimacy end and sex start?
Quite simply, you just take this list of questions and ask them. That is what honest communication is. Think of what you would talk about with others around this and talk to them the same way. That's how I do it. If I find myself talking about stuff that is related to my partners I ask myself if this is information they don't know or a question that I haven't an answer for and if I find that I need to involve them in my thoughts I do. Nothing is ever left for very long. I talk as soon as I can and get to the bottom of things immediately. that is the part of poly that you get to go fast on