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Old 10-15-2010, 01:12 AM
Rachelina Rachelina is offline
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 37

Whimsey, about getting through this weekend: do self-nurturing and/or distracting things, and plan them in detail ahead of time, down to what movies you will watch and what comfort food you'll make yourself, and what to do if you can't sleep. That way in case you are too upset to know what to do with yourself, you'll have a schedule to follow. This was my mistake! I ended up doing things like maniacally sweeping every room in the house (neither nurturing nor distracting), followed by collapsing in a sobbing heap. You can also come on here to vent what you are feeling. I'll be checking in here and you can feel free to PM me if you want. It's good that you will be in contact with your husband - mine called me at an agreed upon point in the evening and that helped some. More hugs to will get through it!
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