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Old 10-14-2010, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by TheMessInQuestion View Post
I thought I'd wave and say hello. As the username might suggest, I'm the mess in question, whimsey's husband.

I just wanted to echo what whimsey said -- I'm reading this thread (and site), and making notes, and receiving insight.

One thing I'm not doing, though, is weighing in. I think it's really important that whimsey have a safe place where she can find support and insight. She's in a lot of pain, and I've caused it, and if she can find voices that help her with that, I don't want to interfere in any way. I'm committed to that, even when there are comments I would like to respond to directly.

I'm not going to say much more, except this: I love her dearly, and I'm committed to her, in more ways than I can express. I've caused her hurt, and I continue to do so, and it's hard for me to reconcile those two things.

Fire away, folks. And thank you, all of you, for taking such good care of her.
Oh you don't want me to fire away. But I will say this, SLOW DOWN! Your wife is asking you to go at her pace. Do it! Its the dawn of a new era and you have turned over a new leaf. Good for you. Now listen to her!
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