A couple of other questions, sorry : Has your long term partner said it's OK to be with other people? (rather than just have more space) And does she know that you are in a relationship with her friend yet? If she does not it may be like a double betrayal to her if it comes out of the blue.
Just my first thoughts on reading your post.
In answer to your question though I am finding anything is possible given a little work and understanding. It is not too much to ask.
I went from wanting to kill my wife's other partner to being on the way to being friends. We have respect for each other.
Last edited by vodkafan; 10-14-2010 at 03:37 AM.