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Old 10-14-2010, 01:54 AM
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Default Idealist Poly Blog Part 34- update

It’s been a while since I’ve posted…so I wanted to post an update!!

Richard and I have our 3rd date with Monica and Donald this weekend!! They will be driving into town on his Harley. We plan on going out to eat and then to a local club to hear some live music!! They will spend the night at my house and we’ll probably cook breakfast in the morning before they head back!!

I am still seeing Jacob about twice a month and he is the best sexual partner I’ve ever had in my life. I’m aware that this can really feed into my addictive personality, so I limit my dates with him to twice a month or once every three weeks. It’s mostly sexual, but we do talk also and I really like him. But- I will say it’s hard to separate the infatuation and NRE from a genuine “liking”. Only time will tell whether we will be long term or not. We have been seeing each other for 3 months now…..so, I guess I have about 3 more months of infatuation!! Whoo hoo!!! Before reality sets in……

Charles is really preoccupied with Holland, so we don’t see each other much anymore. And when we do see each other, it’ mostly just social. Every now and he and I get to spend a little time together, but not often.

John isn’t seeing me anymore. Steven lives so far away. Richard lives out of town during the week. I think I need a local guy that I can see more often!! So…….I have contacted Kevin. We met on a dating site over a year ago and I was attracted to him, but at the time (since I was still in the monogamous/committed mindset) I decided not to get involved with him because he has a very young son. But……now that I’m polyamorous, the fact that he has a son doesn’t matter anymore. So- we are going out tomorrow evening and I will tell him about my current lifestyle and see if he is interested in seeing me.

Also…….I have met a bisexual married woman who has permission to have a female lover outside of their relationship. I have met her husband too and although I’m not attracted to him sexually, I am comfortable around him and she has made it clear that he doesn’t expect me to be with him too just because she and I are together. So- I’m thinking this could be good because she and I hit it off right away and she’s into me!!!

Life is good!!!
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