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Old 10-13-2010, 09:52 PM
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Originally Posted by jcatx View Post
Yeah, I agree..but is it likely that if someone feels so strongly against it they would completely change their mind given more time? Any other mono people here at first were completely against it?
I doubt if anyone could completely change thier mind if they are starting so far away to begin with. I think hoping for a healthy acceptance would be more reasonable to expect. The keyword being "healthy". The state of "tolerating" or "putting up with" something like this would almost certainly be draining on both partners I would think. Only a person who is co-dependant or has external concerns like children or a comfy house would likely find longetivity with someone if they are only "tolerating" how they are.

Just my two cents
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