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I would do whatever it takes to see my son and be in his life. His dad is an ignorant ass if he thinks that, but if you are in your sons life then you will influence him the way you feel is more suiting.
Your son needs you in his life. I think you should go with whatever makes that happen. Time will change things... your time will come. Then you can be proud that you did right by your son.
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