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Originally Posted by Creatress
... their third doesn't like me much, feels threatened, etc.
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Hmm. I had the impression from your initial post that you were entering a dyad and making it a triad. This new bit of info is a bit disappointing -- as she wasn't mentioned before ... and this suggests there may be a greater problem than you may want to acknowledge. If their "third" doesn't like you and feels threatened, things could end up being more than tense. They could explode in your face. Emphasis on the word "could" here.
Are you sure you want to enter into a situation like that?
How will this serious problem be addressed? Will the two others (the first you mentioned) help resolve this, or will leave it to you and the "third"?
I ask because I'd not want to be abandoned by my partners in that way. I'd want them to insist that they'll give serious help to me in dealing with this "third".
Are you on open speaking terms with the Third?
Again..., are you SURE you want to be in the middle of that?