Well, just to fuel my "stop looking" argument... so I've recently been feeling a little lonely, the distance of my husband's out-of-town job getting to me, and then being alone on Thanksgiving... started thinking it'd be nice to meet some new people. Just put that thought out in the universe, then sit around and wash the car, rake some leaves, and watch tv. The next day, someone friended me on gay.com... turns out we have a lot in common, live in the same neighbourhood, and she empathized with my description of "monogamy just doesn't make sense to me" ... even after I mentioned that I'm married, she still wants to go on a date!
I love the power of intention!
Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).
The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "we've always done it this way."