Originally Posted by ChlkDstTtr
While I completely understand your point I think you miss the point that if I can't process what's happening at the speed that it's happening then I'm likely to either shut down or explode/implode. .
I did miss the point...sorry and yes, if you are at that point then things need to be scaled back to let you catch up. The common saying on here is to go at the pace of the person struggling most. While you do sometimes need to help the other person along its good if everyone is comfortable.
I likely should have mentioned that before I said the above.
I had forgotten that key part of how this has to work sometimes.
The journey can be tumultuous but it is worth it