Yea Mon - I agree from that angle.
For the record, the swing 'scene' was never something that attracted me. Kind of surprising considering I'm a major voyeur !
But for I don't think it's the open sex that bothered me as much as the drunkenness and general ignorant, less than genuine (I hope!) behavior in general. I don't like being around drunken people - even if they are cute and naked
And I always felt bad for those who couldn't let their inner self loose without a little help from some external substance. I want to know you the way you are - not some mixed up version of who you might wish you were.
But that's just me - odd bird that I am..........