Sorta. We went to the movies for her birthday a couple weeks ago. Since we have 2 kids it's been difficult to go out frequently so we end up having "dates" while staying in. Unfortunately I have had a hard time getting her to give me her full attention (chores, etc.) and they're never anywhere close to the amount of time her boyfriend gets (e.g. Saturday we had about 2 hours and there was some laundry mixed in).
I'm not sure I can even think that far out right now. I have already considered the possibility of asking her to shorten her dates, but at the moment just thinking about any
time puts a knot in my stomach. I feel sad, guilty, and hypocritical about it. She can't even get a text without my chest tightening up.