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Old 10-10-2010, 03:55 PM
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Labels can sometimes be useful for facilitating communication...and sometimes they can hinder understanding of a situation when the label doesn't exactly fit.

But situations are fluid, and labels attached to fluids can fall off easily, so if the label you've applied no longer fits, it's very possible to change it, or remove it. My wife and I transitioned through several non-monogamous constructs before finally finding one that was comfortable for us...and even then, poly is only the closest we've found to what we want...but it's not an exact fit even still.

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