Originally Posted by PickMoreDaisies
Sometimes I think that I have better things to focus on...my great husband and our great kids!
I agree with S Neal about polyamory being an openess rather than a quest (or that's how I took it).
One of the reasons polyamory is worth it for me is that it keeps me (or at least seems to) in a constant state of appreciation for the relationship I have. I see so many relationships around me where complacency and taking each other for granted are like a kind of cancer that eats away at the health of the relationship.