I read this post with great interest...and can I just say that in all my thinking about how we are going to make a poly relationship work, the loss of those private moments had not occured to me.
But a realisation did sink in when I read this that my DH would also be having private moments with the 3rd, or she would wonder why she was living with us.
So thank you.... I as yet can not offer any help, other than to say it is posts like this that make me realise that we will have a work in progress when we find someone that we both like to join us.
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