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Old 10-08-2010, 10:38 PM
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Having gone through the process, I believe it is quite possible for a guy to change their mind about this particular topic...

But it can take a lot of time and soul searching to get there...which also probably means he needs to want to get there. I doubt he'd put in the effort to change his way of thinking, analyse his fears, or remodel his psyche without some incentive to do so...more importantly and internal drive to get to an end state where the idea of another man in your life wouldn't be a problem.

How to motivate that process...I'm afraid I don't have any suggestions at the moment...but AT's idea certainly sounded like a good place to start.
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