Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Redpepper was invited to a halloween party by a friend who used to swing. She asked me if I wanted to go and thinking very quickly I said "No, but I will babysit so you and Polynerdist can go!"
So if Redpepper didn't have another partner I might feel guilted into going to something that I really didn't want to. How's that for a benefit of poly
To be honest, when she asked me why I didn't want to go I promptly stated "Cause I am a judgmental son of a bitch". Acceptance is very freeing for me it seems.
I enjoy those moments too-when one of the guys wants to do something that I really don't care to, but I know my sister will-I think "THANK GOD for poly-family!"
(Like GG who wants to visit New Orleans. I would be happiest if I never saw the place ever again!)