sorry, I actually thought you were joking for a sec!
I guess where I am coming from with a boyfriend moving in after 20 months of negotiating and waiting to see if he would fit our lives, our families life, NRE gone through... and the situation really being healthy for us, it just struck me as funny.
I guess it depends what you are wanting. He could be here for a good time, not a long time. Although chances are that if he is here for a good time, that will end in a really bad time. At least from what I have read by other stories on here, as well as in my community, of a rushed courtship into poly.