I'm touchy feeling, Breathes is too.
Possibility isn't as touchy but is good with my touching him.
I've discovered over the last month that my need to touch & be touched is very deep seated. When I don't get my touching in I get cranky. In fact when we found out I was going back to days Breathes said "the Cranky Bitch can go away now!" lol
There are as many ways to do polyamory as there are people practicing it!