Thanks first and foremost for joining in the discussion.
I have not actually thought about that. I think you may be onto something, when I think about outsiders, or mystery men. I think I am probably afraid of the unknown in that regards.
As I think about the couples idea, it doesn't seem that bad. There are plenty of times I would love to have another great guy friend to hang out with and do things with. I think I would have to trust him pretty well (and Im sure the same would go for him, especially since we would be sharing the same woman).
I think I am the most open to this idea more so than some of the others. Very interesting contribution, thank you.